Forget the white picket fence, binging Netflix, or a knight in shining armor.
The voice of your heart wants the attention of one person: you
It doesn’t care about anyone else’s actions, thoughts, or beliefs.
And it is clamoring for you to listen to it, and follow where it leads. Because once you do, and you start living by the truth in your heart, you will be a force of unstoppable change.
All you need to do is break free of the role society has dictated you should have – cheerleader at best, property at worst – and no longer give your power away.
It’s yours, to use as you see fit.
And it’s powerful.
I started writing as a way to
cope with life.
When I was young – as is the case for most women – I lacked direction. I was carried along by family, society and my peers. I wasn’t living on purpose. I was a people pleaser, and I handed my personal authority over to others. I felt like I was waiting for my life to start.
I married early and was divorced by 28. Then, I was engaged and married again at 30 – to a man with three small children. Throughout, I felt something guiding me to write down my experiences – which then became a memoir/how-to guide about remarriage.
Writing became particularly important to me during this tumultuous period of my life, as on top of getting remarried, my mother was dying of cancer. She passed away when I was 31.
After my mother’s passing, I set out on a
path to “find myself.”
I consumed every self-help book and empowerment course I could get my hands on, looking for “the answer”. Looking to fill the void within me. But it was only by expressing myself through writing that I was able to learn to cope.
Bereavement counseling led me to self-help and spirituality; meanwhile, writing led me to myself.
I cried more in my writers’ group than in bereavement counseling. Through writing, I learned how to connect with and understand the inner workings of my mind and heart, and discovered my voice in the process. Writing became my support system; my channel to the universe, to God, to the Divine Mother. Writing was the lifeline that therapy wasn’t giving me. It became my primary tool to figure myself out.
Writing taught me that I have the life I believe I deserve.
Creating my fiction trilogy, took me on a journey of self-love and self-acceptance.
It led me to recognize that I am worthy of a great life and great love despite my imperfections. It enabled me to bring my imagination to life, feel more comfortable in my own skin and connect with my inner desires – my libido for life.
My trauma and my subsequent journey of self-discovery have brought me to this point, where, at 50, it feels like go time:
• I’m taking risks and setting big goals.
• Saying no is effortless.
• I chase the things that scare me.
• I live with intention.
• I have access to a vitality that I didn’t have before.
• It’s like a permission slip to go after the things I want.
Today, I’m proud to say…
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I’m an award-winning author who has published four books and one oracle deck.
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I bring 20 years of writing and spiritual work, tools and tears into my course and program to help women find themselves and remind them of who they truly are.
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I’ve had my writing published in many mainstream publications such as Woman’s World, Working Mother and Writer’s Digest.
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I’m currently writing a screenplay based on my memoir about remarriage for its 20th anniversary.
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Fun facts about me!
The Barbie movie was a really big deal for me.
I am deathly afraid of going downhill on a bike, so I made myself do it!
It happened during a triathlon training camp in 2023. I would have quit halfway, but it was raining and my bike refused to stop.
On my mother's deathbed, she said I was her greatest accomplishment.
I was so focused on my career, that I thought she was crazy. Then I had a child and I finally understood.
If I could eat one food
for the rest of my life, it would be mac and cheese.
It was my dream to be a Solid Gold Dancer (Google it!).
That is still alive and well in me.
Writing my trilogy taught me a lot about the power of perseverance.
I now believe if we have the desire, we have the ability – it’s simply a matter of committing to make it happen.
There are milestones in a woman’s life where she is searching for meaning and reinvention.
Midlife is one of them.
Can you relate to being finally ready to prioritize yourself – but you don’t quite know how?
In ancient times, women were revered as goddesses. Sex was sacred and magic was real. This has been lost over the last two millennia. Now, we women are ready to take back the life we know we deserve. We just need to be open to understanding how to do that.
Ever noticed how the longings of your heart aren’t shouting for your attention – they’re whispering? This is your invitation to start paying attention. If writing is calling you, I can support you.
Since discovering this truth, my mission became sharing it with other women, to help people like you unravel who you really are from who you thought you needed to be.
Through fiction and fantasy, we get to live out our dreams of a more adventurous life on the page, from the safety of our homes. It doesn’t matter how old we are, what we look like or how much money is in our bank account. It WILL rekindle your life force and awaken your life.
Discover how writing a fictional meet-cute scene can make you feel alive again.
When was the last time you felt sensual, excited and reconnected to the libido of life? Discover how you can start writing to access hidden parts of yourself!
The Creation Codes Oracle Deck
Each Creation Codes card is an invitation to use writing as a tool to explore your life and unleash your creativity.
A single image transports you, stimulating your imagination and opening into the uncharted territory of your soul’s wisdom. Follow the guidebook to explore journaling prompts which will help you pause and reflect on your life, helping to reveal what you personally need to hear, remember and aspire to.
